Internet Dating and the Art of the Profile
Let's talk about you. Isn't it nice to hear that? Internet dating gives you the chance to describe who you are to a prospective match, without having to worry that you're monopolizing the conversation. You can design your own first impression by the way you craft your profile.
Next, you have the chance to talk about the person you're looking for -- which is equally satisfying. Telling that part of your story is just as important when Internet dating, because it helps potential Cupid matches know whether or not they should reach out to you.
Successful Internet Dating: What Makes a Good Profile?
With Internet dating, your picture shows off your outside and your profile should showcase what's on the inside: your dreams and hopes, your passions, your beliefs. You should tell prospective Cupid matches why you feel they should get to know you. The key to a successful profile is to be optimistic. You're taking a hopeful, positive step, so don't include negative statements in your profile. When dating online, don't put yourself down, bash another gender, or trash an ex. No one will want to be part of THAT list.
I Want a Blond, But Not a Platinum Blonde...
Don't scare people away by being too inflexible. Being a stickler for some details is okay when dating on the Internet. If someone must be athletic or a certain race, you probably should say that. Otherwise try to be open -- saying you want a redhead doctor who is 6'0" and 190 pounds, or a brunette lawyer who is 5'3" and 119 pounds, could eliminate a lot of nice people.
If you've got a case of writer's block, try answering some of these questions:
What are your three favorite things and why are they special to you?
What are your hobbies?
If you had an extra day off, how would you spend it?
If you could go anywhere in the world, where would it be and why?
Be specific and engage your imagination. Read it aloud. Does it sound fun and interesting?
Remember that Internet dating is a fabulous way to meet unique people that you might not otherwise encounter. You're taking a chance on a novel way to find romance, take a chance on someone different, too!